jade. on Nostr: okay I'm kinda considering hosting my own instance now- I just have the difficulty of ...

okay I'm kinda considering hosting my own instance now-

I just have the difficulty of "which server software should I choose?" because I wanna avoid Mastodon and all its forks, and I kinda want to host an Akkoma instance but then database rot is a thing and I need to stay below 100GB of disk usage-
(also, I kinda wanna try GoToSocial tbh)