Mallory on Nostr: All the women I know talk about how the bar is so low for men it’s in hell. If a ...

All the women I know talk about how the bar is so low for men it’s in hell. If a woman says anything dudes just chime in with maybe you should lower your standards. I see so many dudes complaining about dating and being single but never looking in the mirror. Granted women are guilty of that too. I’ve spent significant amounts of time single. It wasn’t like I wouldn’t get offers but they were terrible. When I would try apps at least half or more of the responses were guys telling me I had dudes falling all over themselves for me and they weren’t going to be one of them. I just felt like so many guys were telling themselves the story that they couldn’t get the girl so they ended up doing things to sabotage themselves.