William Lindsey :toad: on Nostr: npub1p9629…jlqs8 We can plan to be with a loved one when she/he dies, and then the ...

npub1p9629tnhej2snl7877sc2euu62d7g68skavxz0qgdgasg9ffnqxqkjlqs8 (npub1p96…lqs8) We can plan to be with a loved one when she/he dies, and then the death happens suddenly when we're not there. I'm sorry you had that experience. In the years my mother declined from dementia and her gerontologist finally told me I had to place her in a nursing home, I wondered if I should ever travel anywhere, in case she became critically ill with me not there. People convinced me that I could not predict what would happn to her and needed to continue my life.