guy on Nostr: First off, is it against nostr etiquette to butt into other people's conversations? ...

First off, is it against nostr etiquette to butt into other people's conversations? If so, please ignore, if not, do you mind spitting out some of your wisdom? For personal use, do you have anything against self-hosting Albyhub? I have seen a few negative things about alby now and yesterday during the zapathon, something happened between my channel or alby and zaps didn't go through. I have my own bitcoin node running and have setup a lightning node before, but didn't want to deal with channel management and albyhub made that easy. Tried start9 and umbrel and i hate the whole super managed os approach. I like running stuff in docker or vms and be able to dig in if needed. Thanks!