Joe on Nostr: npub18c7wj…ler9d I get the feeling; as a young Aspie flirting went right over my ...
npub18c7wjmr8txk9u3xzrxl5rsx8mpt4dr84nyluufn4qg4x9xnar52qller9d (npub18c7…er9d) I get the feeling; as a young Aspie flirting went right over my head and I only figured out later that someone was subtly or not so subtly expressing interest. But there's a reason people flirt indirectly; it's less risky, is preserves deniability and can keep from damaging a relationship if the flirtee isn't interested. "Please be blunt" kinda means "please assume all of the social risk". Maybe there could be a longer button that would say "Please be blunt and I promise to be kind"?
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