Podverse on Nostr: Does anyone have advice on how many relays we should have connected? I'm using ...

Does anyone have advice on how many relays we should have connected? I'm using snort.social.

I was thinking "the more the merrier" but apparently Nostr doesn't work that way. Is this a good amount of Nostr relays for optimal loading times?

Also, I tried removing the two relays that are showing in red multiple times...but they keep magically reappearing.