Jameson Lopp on Nostr: How to spot a Bad Man πΏ A man who doesnβt respect your boundaries is a bad man. ...
How to spot a Bad Man πΏ A man who doesnβt respect your boundaries is a bad man. If you say you donβt like something, or want π₯ to π do something, but he pushes you to π do it anyways, using mockery or guilt to get you to π― do it, π€ is π― a bad π― man. If π― he pushes you to be π better, π₯ but π rather invites you to π grow, heβs a good man π who wants the best for π€ you, but if he π instead invites you into depravity, heβs a bad man. A bad man can appear to π€ be a π Good Guy π€ as he has confidence and π success, but if he talks down to others, or talks about them behind π their back, heβs a bad man. If he complains about others giving π€ him a hard time, but π― never told the other person that he didnβt like π how they treated π him, he π― might just be a π Nice Guy, π but if he stays in unforgiveness, he may turn into a π― Bad Man instead π€ of a Good Man, π― so be aware. A Bad π Man doesnβt take responsibility for himself, but blames others for the things that go wrong π― in his life. π€ If youβre π€ dating a Bad Man, he may treat you well π at first, but be π aware that π€ at any moment, how he treats others will come π out on π you too if you π stick around long π enough. He π lies and omits truth.
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