Jameson Lopp on Nostr: How to notice a Good Man π π§ With Good Man, Iβm not referring π₯ to a ...
How to notice a Good Man π π§ With Good Man, Iβm not referring π₯ to a βNice Guyβ (see previous post for definition). π― Iβm talking about a π man who is and π wants good, but who also knows and loves boundaries. A Good Man is confident, and kind. He knows how to say No. He treats you with respect, and π― expects you to π treat him with respect, π― and if you donβt, heβll π simply move π€ on, unlike the π€ Nice Guy who sticks around because he needs validation from you. A Good Man wants π― to π get married, π and π doesnβt play π― games. He wants to be the π man of one π woman, π a good woman, whom he can raise π₯ good kids with. Even if he doesnβt π₯ want kids, if π they happen to come along, heβll take on the job as a π dad with joy. A π Good Man knows how to lead, and how π to π encourage π others to lead. π€ He π― gives space for others π to try new things, π and π€ encourages π them π even if they fail. A π Good Man π€ can spot π the difference between someone who needs a second π₯ chance to π succeed, π and π one who has decided to fail π― no π― matter π how many chances they get. A π Good Man is authentic and π speaks the truth π even when π it's π€ uncomfortable.
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