Mei, Onii-chan kisser! :PFmap: on Nostr: so since the hole has been blown wide open, i may as well make a post regarding ...
so since the hole has been blown wide open, i may as well make a post regarding @AngelNamedGvenet@fedi.cutiegarden.org and my interactions with her. these posts are not my style and im gonna hate every second writing it and breaking my own anti-drama rule. but i have made every attempt to resolve this even somewhat privately with no luck, so a public post will have to do. sorry for flooding your timelines.
let me preface this first section saying, im not shifting the blame over cutiefest’s shutdown. cutiefest was taken down because of my bad choice of providers. entirely my fault. regarding the state of the rules around cutieposting that was on cutiefest was because gvenet has a habit of pushing the boundaries as far as she can, for instances (that arent hers!) and people. she pushed me and simp as far as could on cutiefest, even stating that she didnt care if cutiefest went down.
when cutiefest went down, she started caring. while i dont have all the details on this, she started spreading lies about me. saying i was a fed, or compromised by feds, or that i used my real name and address to pay for the server (lol). she never expressed these concerns while i documented myself setting cutiefest up to her. after it went down, she never dmed me to let me know she had these concerns before she spoke those lies about me. i doubt these concerns were ever sincere.
speaking for myself, the stuff i allowed on cutiefest was at her suggestion. which is my fault, i shouldve put my foot down, more than i did anyway. but the reason why i even considered her suggestions was because she helped me set cutiefest up and was the girlfriend of another good friend of mine, @Simp4Sarah@fedi.cutiegarden.org
ive had a hunch for while now, and now know that, even though simp was crazy for gvenet, she never felt the same way about him. instead, she led him on, wrapped him around her finger while basically emotionally manipulating him with repeated threats of leaving him, flirting with someone flirt in front of him, etc. simp himself has made mistakes but nothing justifies how she treated him. spreading lies about me is something i can handle. i try to be kind and avoid conflict to a fault. but manipulating simp, causing trouble for my friends and intentionally pushing the limits in an effort to "burn it down to the ground..." are things i cant accept.
tldr; as far as i can tell, gvenet is crazy and just a plain piece of shit. she is not able to sincere, has no self control and no respect for others. everyone who works or interacts with her should keep this in mind going forward.
also, i want to apologize to rae. i was mad and tried to shift blame off to you, even though you were busy with getting baise back up and the blame was and is all mine. im sorry
let me preface this first section saying, im not shifting the blame over cutiefest’s shutdown. cutiefest was taken down because of my bad choice of providers. entirely my fault. regarding the state of the rules around cutieposting that was on cutiefest was because gvenet has a habit of pushing the boundaries as far as she can, for instances (that arent hers!) and people. she pushed me and simp as far as could on cutiefest, even stating that she didnt care if cutiefest went down.
when cutiefest went down, she started caring. while i dont have all the details on this, she started spreading lies about me. saying i was a fed, or compromised by feds, or that i used my real name and address to pay for the server (lol). she never expressed these concerns while i documented myself setting cutiefest up to her. after it went down, she never dmed me to let me know she had these concerns before she spoke those lies about me. i doubt these concerns were ever sincere.
speaking for myself, the stuff i allowed on cutiefest was at her suggestion. which is my fault, i shouldve put my foot down, more than i did anyway. but the reason why i even considered her suggestions was because she helped me set cutiefest up and was the girlfriend of another good friend of mine, @Simp4Sarah@fedi.cutiegarden.org
ive had a hunch for while now, and now know that, even though simp was crazy for gvenet, she never felt the same way about him. instead, she led him on, wrapped him around her finger while basically emotionally manipulating him with repeated threats of leaving him, flirting with someone flirt in front of him, etc. simp himself has made mistakes but nothing justifies how she treated him. spreading lies about me is something i can handle. i try to be kind and avoid conflict to a fault. but manipulating simp, causing trouble for my friends and intentionally pushing the limits in an effort to "burn it down to the ground..." are things i cant accept.
tldr; as far as i can tell, gvenet is crazy and just a plain piece of shit. she is not able to sincere, has no self control and no respect for others. everyone who works or interacts with her should keep this in mind going forward.
also, i want to apologize to rae. i was mad and tried to shift blame off to you, even though you were busy with getting baise back up and the blame was and is all mine. im sorry