Springtime for Zeon (Woggy Mk II) on Nostr: Very happy to have another woman on staff here to help back up our theories. I’ve ...
Very happy to have another woman on staff here to help back up our theories.
I’ve long told everyone that you shouldn’t look for parity in your hobbies w/ women - girls simply will never like things the same way you do, even your shared hobbies are accouterments for her personal brand.
For the autists:
A man who loves motorcycles loves the ride. He likes shopping for bikes, likes working on them all weekend, likes going on adventures and drinking in the experience of it. If you barred him from ever talking about it, wearing the paraphernalia, or riding motos in view of anyone IRL he’d be totally content to live that way.
But women don’t like it that way, they like being SEEN, they like the BEING more than the DOING. Girls like being a motorcyclist, they like people seeing them part their bike and wear cute jackets and garner attention from guys who walk up and say “damn that’s soooo cool, you never see girls on one of these“. She doesn’t schedule multi-day pilgrimages to ride excellent mountain roads 3 states over, she doesn’t love riding out to nowhere in particular to be alone with her thoughts and listen to her brand new exhaust note.
(I say all this having tried to date girls in my hobbies, and coming away perplexed every time until I figured this out)
I’ve long told everyone that you shouldn’t look for parity in your hobbies w/ women - girls simply will never like things the same way you do, even your shared hobbies are accouterments for her personal brand.
For the autists:
A man who loves motorcycles loves the ride. He likes shopping for bikes, likes working on them all weekend, likes going on adventures and drinking in the experience of it. If you barred him from ever talking about it, wearing the paraphernalia, or riding motos in view of anyone IRL he’d be totally content to live that way.
But women don’t like it that way, they like being SEEN, they like the BEING more than the DOING. Girls like being a motorcyclist, they like people seeing them part their bike and wear cute jackets and garner attention from guys who walk up and say “damn that’s soooo cool, you never see girls on one of these“. She doesn’t schedule multi-day pilgrimages to ride excellent mountain roads 3 states over, she doesn’t love riding out to nowhere in particular to be alone with her thoughts and listen to her brand new exhaust note.
(I say all this having tried to date girls in my hobbies, and coming away perplexed every time until I figured this out)
quoting note1gm5…2ln8I have a theory that comes from a strange place.
Women keep trying to appeal to men, but for all the wrong reasons. Women try to cast everything into a sexual light and keep sullying these new identities to appeal to men, but they’re not appealing to men in the way they want to be appealed to beyond the most surface level of “make this identity slutty, make this other identity slutty.” Tumblr was the worst thing to happen to the modern woman because it taught them wholesale that the best way to be considered unique and interesting was to buy into identities that were new or uncommon, but of course because these women are sexually loose - what do you think happened?
Every identity they buy into is ultimately going to be ruined with sexual appeal rather than actually bothering to be different at all. Women want to be around men, they want their attention, they want their resources, but they don’t want to be with men, as relationships have now become simply - God forbid - situationships. They have no sense of commitment, which is why their changes are only aesthetic and surface in nature.
That’s all I got, I’m a retard.