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Register now for Scapegoat No More! - Real Skills Workshop
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1458
Ever feel like you're the Scapegoat — the one others blame and shame their insecurities, upsets, and unhappiness? Ever felt bullies rise up and come after you for what felt like no reason?!?
And sometimes it is: name calling or getting the group (or others in the family) to ostracize you and make life miserable.
It happens. It sucks. It's shocking.
Painfully, it is something sensitive people internalize. We start scapegoating ourselves! We assume: if a situation is painful, it must be our fault! If we're not getting along, we are the ones who Must Do Better.
The truth is, the pattern of being singled out as a scapegoat isn’t a reflection of our worth—it’s a symptom of deeper power dynamics and emotional dysfunctions at play.
It takes skill and a safe-enough space to heal and reframe this. It's also essential for thriving.
Why? Because if a part of us is still feeling responsible — when we were NOT! — enormous "creative energy" is misdirected towards maintaining a fiction.
"It's my fault. They said so." Or, "If I wasn't actually a bad person, they wouldn't have treated me that way."
It's time. Time for a reframe. Time for recalibrating how we see ourselves. Scapegoats No More!
In this workshop, we'll free ourselves from certain ridiculous notions rooted in other people's certainty that we were to blame.
We'll definitely look at how it plays out inside of us still.
This isn't "superficial work" but that doesn't mean we can't laugh and love our way through it. Cathy and I have been blamed and shamed and know pathways and tools that help us recover and feel increasingly free.
We hope you'll choose to join us... Everyone gets the recording who signs up.
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1458
Ever feel like you're the Scapegoat — the one others blame and shame their insecurities, upsets, and unhappiness? Ever felt bullies rise up and come after you for what felt like no reason?!?
And sometimes it is: name calling or getting the group (or others in the family) to ostracize you and make life miserable.
It happens. It sucks. It's shocking.
Painfully, it is something sensitive people internalize. We start scapegoating ourselves! We assume: if a situation is painful, it must be our fault! If we're not getting along, we are the ones who Must Do Better.
The truth is, the pattern of being singled out as a scapegoat isn’t a reflection of our worth—it’s a symptom of deeper power dynamics and emotional dysfunctions at play.
It takes skill and a safe-enough space to heal and reframe this. It's also essential for thriving.
Why? Because if a part of us is still feeling responsible — when we were NOT! — enormous "creative energy" is misdirected towards maintaining a fiction.
"It's my fault. They said so." Or, "If I wasn't actually a bad person, they wouldn't have treated me that way."
It's time. Time for a reframe. Time for recalibrating how we see ourselves. Scapegoats No More!
In this workshop, we'll free ourselves from certain ridiculous notions rooted in other people's certainty that we were to blame.
We'll definitely look at how it plays out inside of us still.
This isn't "superficial work" but that doesn't mean we can't laugh and love our way through it. Cathy and I have been blamed and shamed and know pathways and tools that help us recover and feel increasingly free.
We hope you'll choose to join us... Everyone gets the recording who signs up.