Miakoda on Nostr: I'm a woman who is helped quite a bit by oral stims, always have been. But... I feel ...
I'm a woman who is helped quite a bit by oral stims, always have been.
But... I feel self conscious about it, and even alone often refrain. I end up hearing the voices of way too many STRANGERS who made the joke "I've got something you can suck on/put in your mouth".
Maybe many don't know, so I'll tell you.
I can assure you, whole heartedly, it isn't funny. We don't find it funny. It's traumatizing, actually. Particularly being someone who did that against my will.
Please never make that joke. 😢
But... I feel self conscious about it, and even alone often refrain. I end up hearing the voices of way too many STRANGERS who made the joke "I've got something you can suck on/put in your mouth".
Maybe many don't know, so I'll tell you.
I can assure you, whole heartedly, it isn't funny. We don't find it funny. It's traumatizing, actually. Particularly being someone who did that against my will.
Please never make that joke. 😢