Artemis on Nostr: Abusive people will tell you to go to therapy because they want to emphasize to you ...

Abusive people will tell you to go to therapy because they want to emphasize to you that your problems with them are all "actually" because you're mentally ill.

My ex husband constantly told me I needed therapy, but it turns out if you actually go to therapy and start to get better, they don't love that because eventually you start saying "hey, wait a minute...some of my suffering is coming directly from *you*."