Kagan MacTane on Nostr: Not sure who needs to hear this, but I'm confident someone does: If someone asks you ...

Not sure who needs to hear this, but I'm confident someone does:

If someone asks you for something, or to do something for them, and you decline... if they then get upset or try to argue with your "no", then:

They were never "asking" at all. They were *demanding*.

And refusing a demand is always okay.