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How π to notice a Good Man π§ With π Good π Man, Iβm not referring to a π βNice Guyβ π― (see previous π post for definition). Iβm talking about π a man who is and wants π₯ good, but who also knows and loves π boundaries. A Good Man is confident, π and kind. π― He π knows how π― to say No. He treats you with respect, and expects you to treat him with π respect, and if you donβt, heβll simply move on, unlike the π€ Nice Guy who sticks around π― because π he needs π― validation from you. A π Good Man wants to π€ get married, and doesnβt play games. He wants π― to π be the π₯ man of one woman, a good woman, whom he π₯ can raise π good π€ kids π with. Even if he doesnβt π want kids, if they happen π to come along, heβll take on the job as a dad with joy. A Good Man knows how π to lead, and how π to encourage others π₯ to lead. π He π gives space for others to try new things, and encourages them even if they fail. A Good Man π― can spot the difference between someone who needs a π― second chance π to succeed, and one who has decided to fail no matter how many chances they get. A Good Man is authentic π and speaks the truth even π when π it's uncomfortable. π₯
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