Amber on Nostr: yeah I'm not explaining to a remote user why the phrase "Here is a wild guess: there ...

yeah I'm not explaining to a remote user why the phrase "Here is a wild guess: there are so many anti-trans men pretending to be trans women online coming after me as a transphobe to get everyone all riled up 💅" would make me feel uncomfortable. It ties the respect of our gender identity to whether we politically align with them. Calling people you don't agree with "anti-trans men pretending to be transwomen" is just not it. How could anyone see that as anything other than transphobia? "All these fake trans people are riled up about me being transphobic" ??