detached spork on Nostr: I think one of the things I found hardest to handle when spending time in more cishet ...

I think one of the things I found hardest to handle when spending time in more cishet spaces was how denormalised it was to have a terrible relationship with your parents.
The queer community? We're not going to question you when you casually mention that your parents would prefer you were dead than happy. Cishet people are fucking obsesed with defending shitty parents for some reason.
NO JUDY THEY DON'T ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT MY HAPPINESS STFU