annsofinovelist on Nostr: Ok. But you started asking me questions and I answered them. I care about how I act, ...

Ok. But you started asking me questions and I answered them. I care about how I act, and I think that's important. It is also important to set boundaries, but they kinda defete the point if they're done harshly or rudely.
Even if she wanted to control the situation, which is another thing I don't agree with doing(but that's a different issue) but even if one wanted to do that, there are so many other ways to do that that are still respectful to the person you're setting the boundary with.