PaperDerci on Nostr: Is it wrong to say that not being able to find someone relatable because they're a ...

Is it wrong to say that not being able to find someone relatable because they're a different gender is sexist?
Don't get me wrong, you can't find *everything* about the opposite sex relatable, that's just unrealistic. But it's so confusing to me how some people will say "Man, I can't relate to this character AT ALL because they're a woman 😔"
Is it wrong to say that's sexist?