Satsaverpleb on Nostr: LIghtning Network question? Someone corroptitively closed a channel with me then ...

LIghtning Network question? Someone corroptitively closed a channel with me then forced closed it later. it was not confirmed. In fact it is not even showing up in mempool "says waiting for tranaction". I'm guessing the fee is very low in this high on chain fee environment right now. So how long will I be waiting to get my funds? I can't bump the fee because they closed it. The party doesn't know how to bump the fee and doesnt respond. If it never confirms or get added what happens to my sats?