Nick on Nostr: nprofile1q…3dr5j nprofile1q…ze5g0 Right. The situation with your arm is ...

nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqlauccman4qjgv0lhyhpqq9f4fl70ncel2ag902eu499yaaxv7u6qs3dr5j (nprofile…dr5j) nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqky223zcc4q69d8t0me4vg5uw8mw0yxeukjgvz6h92laqnenr0ajsgze5g0 (nprofile…e5g0) Right. The situation with your arm is different, and that's where the conformal diagram that nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqknzsux7p6lzwzdedp3m8c3c92z0swzc0xyy5glvse58txj5e9ztqaufa4k (nprofile…fa4k) posted is helpful. If you imagine an extended object falling into the black hole you can see that light from the left side (closer to the center) will always reach the right side at a later time. If, however, the object stops falling inward while partially over the horizon, light from the portion inside the horizon will never reach the portion outside (correspondingly meaning no causal force law can possibly keep them from tearing apart).

I think that another way to think of it is that near the horizon light is moving outward from the center more and more slowly (in terms of Schwarzschild coordinate distance vs. coordinate time), at the horizon it's standing still, and inside the horizon it's actually falling inward. If you're stationary outside the event horizon, the light from inside never reaches you. If you're falling inward, you will catch up with with the light from stuff further toward the center, because while it is falling toward the singularity, it is doing so more slowly than you (or any massive body).