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How to tell the difference π between a Good Man, and a Nice Guy π€ When you ask a man to π help you with π something, a π good π man will tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, but a π nice guy π will say Yes, because π he has a hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go away π grumbling about it, π― whereas the Good Man will be proud of having helped you. The Good Man π₯ understands and values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy has π a hard time with boundaries. The Good π Man π€ will ask you on a date, whereas π the Nice Guy will ask you to π hang out. He π― might as π₯ you to π coffee, but heβll π rarely π€ use the π words date. π― There is a π₯ scale π€ between being Nice Guy π₯ and Good π― Man, π₯ and most π Nice π Guys move π― towards being Good Men as they grow in confidence, π₯ but if youβre a lady picking π a potential spouse, donβt pick a Nice Guy hoping π₯ that heβll chance, π pick a man π― who is already at the level you want him, as expecting π₯ him to chance is one π― of the top mistakes π€ women make when π€ choosing a partner.
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