Littlepixie on Nostr: One of the most important thing my husband taught me is: Stop complain and do the ...
One of the most important thing my husband taught me is:
Stop complain and do the shit.
At first I was angry with him but I start to agree with him more and more.
I used to complain a lot (it was partly what I learn in my family) and I still sometimes do. But I am try to stop it.
If it is something what I can change, I do it (and if I don't do it I try to not complain about it). And if it something what I could not change, I try to not waste my energy on it. It is slow progress but it is still progress (my husband should agree on that I am getting better and better in this 😁).
And why I am writing about it now (and again)? One situation from my work just remind me how I used to be (and also how I am grateful that I changed).
My had deadline for project application today at 12.00. Not to mention that this deadline was already posponed for week. My collegue call me angry that system doesn't work as it supposed to and that she have problem with it. Well I told her that I am on my way to work, but I can only give her advise on phone. I also remind her that the deadline is in 35 minutes. She started to complain that she think the deadline is in midgnight and she didn't know the time (as it was my faul..The deadline is writen in application form in red big headline..).
Than she spent 5 min to complain why I didn't pick phone earlier (she called once previous day), that other parner organization scam her etc.. So I tell her that she can make it in 30 minutes if she start working now or she can quit and try it for next deadline. In the end she made it but she could save energy and time.. And it just remind me how I behaved back then. 🤯 I was the same maybe even worse.
#reminder #plebchain
Stop complain and do the shit.
At first I was angry with him but I start to agree with him more and more.
I used to complain a lot (it was partly what I learn in my family) and I still sometimes do. But I am try to stop it.
If it is something what I can change, I do it (and if I don't do it I try to not complain about it). And if it something what I could not change, I try to not waste my energy on it. It is slow progress but it is still progress (my husband should agree on that I am getting better and better in this 😁).
And why I am writing about it now (and again)? One situation from my work just remind me how I used to be (and also how I am grateful that I changed).
My had deadline for project application today at 12.00. Not to mention that this deadline was already posponed for week. My collegue call me angry that system doesn't work as it supposed to and that she have problem with it. Well I told her that I am on my way to work, but I can only give her advise on phone. I also remind her that the deadline is in 35 minutes. She started to complain that she think the deadline is in midgnight and she didn't know the time (as it was my faul..The deadline is writen in application form in red big headline..).
Than she spent 5 min to complain why I didn't pick phone earlier (she called once previous day), that other parner organization scam her etc.. So I tell her that she can make it in 30 minutes if she start working now or she can quit and try it for next deadline. In the end she made it but she could save energy and time.. And it just remind me how I behaved back then. 🤯 I was the same maybe even worse.
#reminder #plebchain