Ash on Nostr: Both are wrong, imo (just my opinion). I follow both. I'm not on every hour, but when ...
Both are wrong, imo (just my opinion).
I follow both. I'm not on every hour, but when this feud resurfaces, I find that it follows a pattern:
>Tyler (who has Xeno muted) goes out of his way to jab in sideways of a conversation to suddenly call Xeno gay
>Xeno responds, calling Tyler trouble for Tyler's family
>They both go on--Tyler says Xeno will burn in hell for eternity and Xeno says Tyler's family would be better off without him
I don't believe anything I've written is hyperbole or diminishing.
Tyler is free to poke at Xeno, interjecting into a conversation for a chance to call him gay, even after muting him. (I've seen this twice myself, in passing.) However, there should be an understanding on Tyler's part that reaching out to swipe will result in getting swiped back.
Xeno should realize that telling a fellow White that he wishes for something to happen at their family's household is not good.
I want to say that both should love their fellow White, that we're called to love the ones close to us--and that we're given permission to unbind. (Muting would be an example. Muting and then swiping would not be an example.)
However, it has been the case in the last two regurgitations of this feud (the two I've witnessed) that the feud begins because Tyler sideswipes to call Xeno gay (the first exchange, both times).
One of the two times, it was self-excused / explained as trying to be friendly, invite jokes. (I'm trying to be fair.)
I follow both. I'm not on every hour, but when this feud resurfaces, I find that it follows a pattern:
>Tyler (who has Xeno muted) goes out of his way to jab in sideways of a conversation to suddenly call Xeno gay
>Xeno responds, calling Tyler trouble for Tyler's family
>They both go on--Tyler says Xeno will burn in hell for eternity and Xeno says Tyler's family would be better off without him
I don't believe anything I've written is hyperbole or diminishing.
Tyler is free to poke at Xeno, interjecting into a conversation for a chance to call him gay, even after muting him. (I've seen this twice myself, in passing.) However, there should be an understanding on Tyler's part that reaching out to swipe will result in getting swiped back.
Xeno should realize that telling a fellow White that he wishes for something to happen at their family's household is not good.
I want to say that both should love their fellow White, that we're called to love the ones close to us--and that we're given permission to unbind. (Muting would be an example. Muting and then swiping would not be an example.)
However, it has been the case in the last two regurgitations of this feud (the two I've witnessed) that the feud begins because Tyler sideswipes to call Xeno gay (the first exchange, both times).
One of the two times, it was self-excused / explained as trying to be friendly, invite jokes. (I'm trying to be fair.)