that one JNL on Nostr: The family process is really weird, in that one spouse has to be 'lead' and the other ...
The family process is really weird, in that one spouse has to be 'lead' and the other of us just doesn't count. If my spouse is lead, no one cares if I'm a student ... because no one cares about me at all. If I am lead, however, I can do NOTHING for my family while I have student status.
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