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๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ ๐ค๐๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐?
A cruddy question makes us feel terrible, confused, and disempowered.
Why am I so fat?
Why did they do that?!?
Why can't I ever ____?!?
Why do they thinkโฆ?!?
But why won't they?!?
Cruddy questions often are why questions.
Cruddy questions are also questions where we feel like we're guessing or imagining the answer, so it doesn't feel "good" to us to land on the answer.
The more desperate the need is to know "But Why?!?!?" the more the question itself is likely linked to unresolved trauma. Take care of the trauma and the desperate WHY lets go, and you can ask and answer useful questions instead.
https://www.thrivingnow.com/concept/useful-questions
A cruddy question makes us feel terrible, confused, and disempowered.
Why am I so fat?
Why did they do that?!?
Why can't I ever ____?!?
Why do they thinkโฆ?!?
But why won't they?!?
Cruddy questions often are why questions.
Cruddy questions are also questions where we feel like we're guessing or imagining the answer, so it doesn't feel "good" to us to land on the answer.
The more desperate the need is to know "But Why?!?!?" the more the question itself is likely linked to unresolved trauma. Take care of the trauma and the desperate WHY lets go, and you can ask and answer useful questions instead.
https://www.thrivingnow.com/concept/useful-questions