redpill on Nostr: Why "just focus on your purpose" is BAD advice. A lot of Red Pill YouTubers or ...
Why "just focus on your purpose" is BAD advice.
A lot of Red Pill YouTubers or Influencers will tell you:
“Just focus on your purpose bro. Girls will come later down the line.”
But this is probably the worst advice you can give men nowadays.
This is because what you're ACTUALLY doing is kicking your dating goals and expectations with women to some far-off place in the distant future…
So that you don't have to take ANY sort of action toward them in the meantime.
This essentially becomes a “self-improvement” cult where nobody gets girls but still high-fives and circle-jerks each other at the fact that they're “working on their purpose”…
(Which really just means watching Red Pill YouTube videos all day)
And expects that they’re just magically going to attract women later down the line.
Yet they fail to realize that EVEN IF they become rich and “high-status” they will STILL have to learn how to attract, seduce and escalate with women anyway.
So if this is you, understand the following…
There is NO other way to fix your dating problems than working on your DATING life;
So instead of expecting your dating life to somehow work out without taking action…
Start learning the proper systems and taking action to fix the problems you currently have in your dating life.
Nothing great has ever happened by accident.
Obviously having a purpose is very important, more important than women, but that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your dating life and use that as an excuse to NOT take action.
That's all I'm saying.
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A lot of Red Pill YouTubers or Influencers will tell you:
“Just focus on your purpose bro. Girls will come later down the line.”
But this is probably the worst advice you can give men nowadays.
This is because what you're ACTUALLY doing is kicking your dating goals and expectations with women to some far-off place in the distant future…
So that you don't have to take ANY sort of action toward them in the meantime.
This essentially becomes a “self-improvement” cult where nobody gets girls but still high-fives and circle-jerks each other at the fact that they're “working on their purpose”…
(Which really just means watching Red Pill YouTube videos all day)
And expects that they’re just magically going to attract women later down the line.
Yet they fail to realize that EVEN IF they become rich and “high-status” they will STILL have to learn how to attract, seduce and escalate with women anyway.
So if this is you, understand the following…
There is NO other way to fix your dating problems than working on your DATING life;
So instead of expecting your dating life to somehow work out without taking action…
Start learning the proper systems and taking action to fix the problems you currently have in your dating life.
Nothing great has ever happened by accident.
Obviously having a purpose is very important, more important than women, but that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your dating life and use that as an excuse to NOT take action.
That's all I'm saying.
#nostr #grownostr #amethyst #zap #weed #coffee #footstr #bitcoin