Walden on Nostr: She nags because she expects more from you ...

She nags because she expects more from you

quoting note17ea…nsdr

Many of the complaints that you hear from your "Nagging Wife" are sourced from the fact that the husband does not bother to THINK AHEAD about your life together. He thinks the family life is the wife's job. Moms are expected to managing the kids, the house, the schedule, etc. The fact that you cannot manage to THINK AHEAD enough to plan her a birthday dinner, put gas in the car, take out the trash, getting a Mother's Day gift for her and (or for YOUR OWN MOTHER) - this all shows that you are self absorberd.

Imagine if you bought gifts and planned parties for EVERYONE in your family, forever, and year after year nobody every said boo about your birthday. ("sorry honey, I didn't think about it...")

To shift your relationship from combative to symbiotic, to where your wife is free of stress and happily generates feminine energy, the man must take action to THINK AHEAD about what your wife and your family needs. Get a calendar, put reminders in your phone, write a list, ask your sister to remind you - whatever will help you look ahead and get the tasks done.

The reality in this is that the first time you do think ahead and provide something for her, it will be shocking and you will get LOTS OF PRAISE for it. Eventually the shock wears off and the surprise turns to expectation, which may seem unfair, but this is where ther relationship starts to shift - this is where you are actually relieving her of burden and stress, which allows her to become more feminine.

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