Taserface on Nostr: Agreed with all of that. Here is another pleb's opinion: I've been shooting guns and ...

Agreed with all of that. Here is another pleb's opinion: I've been shooting guns and training for a long time with police and military types - training is very important and should be an ongoing thing...not a "one and done." And the training should cover not only gun safety and how to shoot the gun, but also the mental aspects (and legal implications in your locale) of self defense. Drawing your weapon should be a last resort, when you have no other alternatives left and you fear for your life/safety or that of loved ones. While TV and movies glamorize it, shooting someone is a life-changing decision and there can (will) be long-term implications.

Practicing at a range is also a good idea, as you will want to be very familiar with the gun and comfortable shooting it. The last thing you want is to need a gun and have issues with it, not know how to load it, unholster it, flip the safety off, shoot it, unjam a misfire, etc.

I've probably bought more guns than shoes over the years: some I keep, most I eventually sell via consignment through my local gun club. My experience is that everyone will have a favorite (or a few favorites) and those will vary by person. Fit and how the gun feels in your hand(s) is important, and a gun that my friend loves may be too big or small for me. So best bet - if you can - try different guns at a reputable gun club and see what you like and what you don't. Many ranges and gun clubs let you rent guns and try them out at their range. That should help you narrow in on a good choice for you.