Jameson Lopp on Nostr: How to π₯ be a good π woman π Learn to say No, kindly. Donβt obviscate, but ...
How to π₯ be a good π woman π Learn to say No, kindly. Donβt obviscate, but simply π€ let your Yes be a Yes that π you can π€ handle, and your No a No you π can stand by. π― Donβt π₯ compromise if itβs going π to take more π from you than you π€ have to give. Learn that not all π₯ men π are Good Men. Yes, theyβll be π kind to π― you because you bring kindness out π of them, but that π― doesnβt mean theyβre a good π spouse option. If a man doesnβt respect π― your boundaries, π€ let π him go. He can stay an acquaintance, π but π not a lover. Decide π what you want out of life, and only π adapt if itβs bringing you in π a better direction than you first imagined. Forgive quickly, but expect a chance before you π₯ put yourself in the π same π situation. If someone canβt handle your boundaries, in π a certain area, donβt invite that person into that π area of your life until π― they π₯ display a change. Be confident π€ in your abilities. π€ You have skills others donβt, π and thatβs good. Be confident π― in those skills, but donβt mock others π who π donβt have them. Instead, encourage and teach them what π you know and π€ can do. Learn π to celebrate the little things, and encourage people who are π trying, even if it doesn't π€ go well. Learn to ask if they π€ want help/input, instead of giving unsolicited advice. Learn the differences between π men and woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them π down. π Speak truth even π when if it's uncomfortable or scary. Be authentic.
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