weknowwhygary on Nostr: There's nothing extreme about it. This was the norm, that all good women were taught, ...

There's nothing extreme about it. This was the norm, that all good women were taught, very recently. My wife was raised like this, so I have never had to say a word about it, and she learned it from her mother.

The reason women used to teach this to their daughters is because they knew the real risk presented by divorce, back when there was a risk, so they taught their daughters to never be alone with a man who isn't her husband and the rest of the rules for what is and isn't appropriate company for a woman.

So, it has very little do with who is or isn't a Chad. If you have to have this talk with your wife, it means she didn't have a good mother. If you want your daughters to be good wives one day, you have to start the cycle anew.