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How to tell the difference between π₯ a Good Man, and a π€ Nice Guy π€ When you ask a man π to help π― you with something, π a π― good man will π tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because he has a π― hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go π away grumbling about π it, whereas the Good Man will be π proud of having helped you. π€ The Good π Man understands π and values π€ boundaries, whereas the Nice π Guy has π a hard time with boundaries. The Good Man will π ask you on a date, whereas the Nice Guy will ask you to hang π out. He might π as you to coffee, but heβll π rarely use π₯ the words date. There is π€ a π scale between being Nice Guy and π Good π€ Man, and π₯ most Nice Guys move towards being π₯ Good π Men as they grow in confidence, but if youβre a lady picking a potential spouse, donβt pick a Nice Guy hoping that heβll chance, pick a man who is already at π the level you want him, as expecting π him to chance is one of the top mistakes women make when π choosing a partner.
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