pam on Nostr: Sometimes I write thoughts down at the end of a long day based on experience or ...
Sometimes I write thoughts down at the end of a long day based on experience or observation. It serves as a self reminder. These are some from the last few months :
You can’t control others, but you can control yourself.
Saying no sets boundaries. Saying yes opens doors. Finding the balance makes all the difference.
Those who do exceedingly well are laser focused on reaching end-goals. Those who don’t, are often focused on everyone else’s problems.
Only help people who are willing to help themselves
Personal attacks happen when one lacks constructive or substantial input in a discussion i.e they don’t know enough
I deeply appreciate people who don’t make every conversation about themselves, especially when they have a lot going on but choose to put others first.
If you are bitching about someone you love, either publicly or to your friends, you take away their dignity, because of your lack of emotional control.
If you need to feel loved by making someone jealous, then you are in a toxic relationship (and you might be the toxic one)
Distancing yourself from environments, people or triggers that fuel insecurity allows for better self-reflection and emotional growth
Knowledge boosts confidence.
Men harass women. Women harass men too. The fault is not men. The fault is harassment
Unsolicited advice often falls on deaf ears, especially if the person is not in a mindset to embrace change. If you are ready for change, you will be after people you look up to for advises, tips and tricks.
Surround yourself with people who find ways to make their lives better - be it health, thoughts, financially, growth and more.
Be with people who bring out the best out of you, not the worst out of you. Likewise, be someone who brings out the best out of someone else.
You are who you chose to engage in conversations with.
Remember to relax the brain.
Laughter is the best medicine.
Never settle for a checklist.
Happiness is the goal.
If you love, just love.
Peace of mind is the most precious thing in the world.
Sometimes, if you need to walk away, best to walk away quietly.
Love this pic from LadybugArt
You can’t control others, but you can control yourself.
Saying no sets boundaries. Saying yes opens doors. Finding the balance makes all the difference.
Those who do exceedingly well are laser focused on reaching end-goals. Those who don’t, are often focused on everyone else’s problems.
Only help people who are willing to help themselves
Personal attacks happen when one lacks constructive or substantial input in a discussion i.e they don’t know enough
I deeply appreciate people who don’t make every conversation about themselves, especially when they have a lot going on but choose to put others first.
If you are bitching about someone you love, either publicly or to your friends, you take away their dignity, because of your lack of emotional control.
If you need to feel loved by making someone jealous, then you are in a toxic relationship (and you might be the toxic one)
Distancing yourself from environments, people or triggers that fuel insecurity allows for better self-reflection and emotional growth
Knowledge boosts confidence.
Men harass women. Women harass men too. The fault is not men. The fault is harassment
Unsolicited advice often falls on deaf ears, especially if the person is not in a mindset to embrace change. If you are ready for change, you will be after people you look up to for advises, tips and tricks.
Surround yourself with people who find ways to make their lives better - be it health, thoughts, financially, growth and more.
Be with people who bring out the best out of you, not the worst out of you. Likewise, be someone who brings out the best out of someone else.
You are who you chose to engage in conversations with.
Remember to relax the brain.
Laughter is the best medicine.
Never settle for a checklist.
Happiness is the goal.
If you love, just love.
Peace of mind is the most precious thing in the world.
Sometimes, if you need to walk away, best to walk away quietly.
Love this pic from LadybugArt