David Megginson on Nostr: Since it's not a case of abusive behaviour or IPV, there's no need to assign blame. ...
Since it's not a case of abusive behaviour or IPV, there's no need to assign blame. Not your place.
Is there anything to prevent you from hanging around with each of them separately?
Has either asked you not to stay in touch with the other?
Have you had a conversation each one how they'd feel about your staying in touch with the other?
I think the important thing is not to share information about either one without permission. That's a boundary you could set right at the start.
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