npub1qg…0q977 on Nostr: OH MY GOD THANK YOU. Pickup artists are immoral (in my opinion) because they violate ...
OH MY GOD THANK YOU. Pickup artists are immoral (in my opinion) because they violate a lot of the consent rules of FRIES (another kink acronym):
Freely given (many pickup artists pressure their victims)
Reversible (they will FREAK if you initially agree and then change your mind)
Informed (they consistently encourage lies)
Enthusiastic (again with the pressuring)
Specific (again with lies, omission, or vagueries)
Findom does not inherently violate any of these, and while there are bad actors in every community, immorality is the rule in pickup artistry. Not the exception.
Freely given (many pickup artists pressure their victims)
Reversible (they will FREAK if you initially agree and then change your mind)
Informed (they consistently encourage lies)
Enthusiastic (again with the pressuring)
Specific (again with lies, omission, or vagueries)
Findom does not inherently violate any of these, and while there are bad actors in every community, immorality is the rule in pickup artistry. Not the exception.