Shaula Evans on Nostr: Male friend: *asks a favor* Me: Not a good time, because I'm worried about my family ...

Male friend: *asks a favor*

Me: Not a good time, because I'm worried about my family in the wildfires in Canada. Maybe some other time though.

Friend: *crickets*

. . .

Baseline human decency would be a kind word acknowledging my situation.

Men, women are not vending machines for things you want. Too many men treat me this way, espec. in the pandemic.

In related news, I'm considering cutting someone out of my life. Because I am way too tired for this.