Lonelypumpkins on Nostr: I'm an advocate of not asking questions that imbue an aspect of social pressure to do ...

I'm an advocate of not asking questions that imbue an aspect of social pressure to do a certain thing or tacitly imply that one's timeline should be hastened.

ie if in a relationship, "when are you getting engaged?"

if engaged, "have you set a date yet"?

if married, "when are you having kids?"

These are plans for the partners to decide on their own timelines...or not if that's their prerogative.