Goody on Nostr: It's so sad that people "plan ahead" for a divorce. It really depends on what is more ...
It's so sad that people "plan ahead" for a divorce. It really depends on what is more important to you. Do you love your money and stuff or a really fantastic chance at growing old with someone you love and can trust with everything?
I'd suggest spending time getting to know someone and making sure you are "compatible" with like thinking. That whole opposites attract BS from Hollywood and Satan! It simply isn't true, at least for long. Spend time, energy, and your precious money finding and getting to know that special someone, and then, if you find her, marry her and love her. Never look back after this. Love is a choice, NOT an emotion. Every day, you must CHOOSE to love each other.
If done well, it's an investment; you wouldn't trade all the gold in the world for it. Those who have it know this. Those who have all the gold in the world but no one to love them know this, too, and eventually become the saddest people on earth.
Look for a "good girl" who is simply out there looking for a "good guy," and get to know her ... for the rest of your lives together. NO drama, just choose to love! SIMPLE!
I'd suggest spending time getting to know someone and making sure you are "compatible" with like thinking. That whole opposites attract BS from Hollywood and Satan! It simply isn't true, at least for long. Spend time, energy, and your precious money finding and getting to know that special someone, and then, if you find her, marry her and love her. Never look back after this. Love is a choice, NOT an emotion. Every day, you must CHOOSE to love each other.
If done well, it's an investment; you wouldn't trade all the gold in the world for it. Those who have it know this. Those who have all the gold in the world but no one to love them know this, too, and eventually become the saddest people on earth.
Look for a "good girl" who is simply out there looking for a "good guy," and get to know her ... for the rest of your lives together. NO drama, just choose to love! SIMPLE!