Corvid Crone on Nostr: Using your supposed allyship of trans folks as a shield for criticism is a rancid ...
Using your supposed allyship of trans folks as a shield for criticism is a rancid take and means you are not an actual ally.
If you have a sudden influx of criticism from the people who you supposedly care about, it's time to listen, not dig in your heels and claim they must be trolls "pretending to be trans" (that's a right-wing line btw)
It's not your call to decide what is and is not safe or appropriate for trans folks if you are not trans. That includes me. If I fuck up and all the trans folks I follow/follow me start telling me, "hey you fucked up", it's my job to listen and reflect and modify my behaviors/thought patterns.
If you have a sudden influx of criticism from the people who you supposedly care about, it's time to listen, not dig in your heels and claim they must be trolls "pretending to be trans" (that's a right-wing line btw)
It's not your call to decide what is and is not safe or appropriate for trans folks if you are not trans. That includes me. If I fuck up and all the trans folks I follow/follow me start telling me, "hey you fucked up", it's my job to listen and reflect and modify my behaviors/thought patterns.