Jules on Nostr: nprofile1q…8lwgl I have an entirely unscientific theory about trauma, that it's not ...

nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqafz9jadkpqzaedvclkth4vcm6q9fsvy6mfddq0ufwjpy4gptlwxqx8lwgl (nprofile…lwgl) I have an entirely unscientific theory about trauma, that it's not so much caused by witnessing something horrific but by not being supported and validated by others afterwards. For example being raped and then told you probably led him on and it wasn't that bad anyway vs being told that was a horrific and unjustifiable way for him to treat you. Seeing a child get horrifically injured and being told to just get on with your job vs seeing something awful and having it acknowleged