anarcanudos on Nostr: I need understand that: ...

I need understand that:

quoting note1fgu…tjpw

#asknostr question about outbox algorithm:
This is the relay list event of this random user fiatjaf (npub180c…h6w6):


But in gossip client it includes nos.lol as outbox relay:


Why nos.lol is included? Outbox isn't the 10002 kind listed relays? I reacted to a post using gossip client and another using primal, and in both cases the reaction was send to nos.lol only, and not for any relay from 10002.

🤨 😔

and that:

quoting note1jvx…w3tl

or outbox will only publish in my write relays only? If yes, I don't get how reacted users will know they was reacted