Grace Vulpes Alopex :v_bi: :v_trans: :v_pat: on Nostr: saying stuff like "There's no such thing as a dominant bottom" makes you a bad ...
saying stuff like "There's no such thing as a dominant bottom" makes you a bad person.
like, straight up, you are re-enforcing patriarchal ideas and gender roles.
it's like asking a lesbian/gay couple "who's the man and who's the woman"
constantly conflating top/bottom with dom/sub is annoying and unpleasant, but straight up saying that bottoming inherently makes you submissive is just fucking harmful to everyone, queers and non-queers alike.
like, straight up, you are re-enforcing patriarchal ideas and gender roles.
it's like asking a lesbian/gay couple "who's the man and who's the woman"
constantly conflating top/bottom with dom/sub is annoying and unpleasant, but straight up saying that bottoming inherently makes you submissive is just fucking harmful to everyone, queers and non-queers alike.