imdat celeste :v_nb: :v_tg: on Nostr: Yesterday, after our now-regular weekend-morning-intimacy (usually Saturday and ...
Yesterday, after our now-regular weekend-morning-intimacy (usually Saturday and Sunday now), #LoveOfMyLife asked me if she can ask me something.
Keep in mind, we both were still naked and sitting legs spread, looking at each other.
Me: "Yeah, of course."
Her: "If you had an opportunity and you'd meet a very attractive enby, do you think you'd be sexually attracted to them and would you want to be intimate with them? What do you think?"
Me: "Umm... tbh, I don't think so. I know a few really attractive enbies online, but here is the problem: even though I find them really attractive, I don't now whether I'd want to be intimate with them, because, well, I don't know how to."
Her: "What do you mean?"
Me: "I guess, it really is about knowing someone well enough to be able to be intimate. And one-night-stand with an enby? I don't know. It is so complicated. We'd first need to figure out our each other's configuration, preferences with that configuration, and so on, and so on. We'd probably end up writing a dissertation while trying to figure out what would work for the two of us."
Her: "Hmm..."
Me: "Why do you ask?"
Her: "Well, I think, I realized I'd still have problems if you had an affair with a woman, but I was thinking about enbies, and there, I don't think I'd have that much of an issue - though, I am still not 100% sure, but I guess I'd be more ok-ish if ..."
Me: "Because an enby is not a competition for you as a cis woman?"
Her: "Maybe, ... who knows? Attraction and jealousy - they are so complicated."
Me: "Yep! Attraction is complicated..."
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Keep in mind, we both were still naked and sitting legs spread, looking at each other.
Me: "Yeah, of course."
Her: "If you had an opportunity and you'd meet a very attractive enby, do you think you'd be sexually attracted to them and would you want to be intimate with them? What do you think?"
Me: "Umm... tbh, I don't think so. I know a few really attractive enbies online, but here is the problem: even though I find them really attractive, I don't now whether I'd want to be intimate with them, because, well, I don't know how to."
Her: "What do you mean?"
Me: "I guess, it really is about knowing someone well enough to be able to be intimate. And one-night-stand with an enby? I don't know. It is so complicated. We'd first need to figure out our each other's configuration, preferences with that configuration, and so on, and so on. We'd probably end up writing a dissertation while trying to figure out what would work for the two of us."
Her: "Hmm..."
Me: "Why do you ask?"
Her: "Well, I think, I realized I'd still have problems if you had an affair with a woman, but I was thinking about enbies, and there, I don't think I'd have that much of an issue - though, I am still not 100% sure, but I guess I'd be more ok-ish if ..."
Me: "Because an enby is not a competition for you as a cis woman?"
Her: "Maybe, ... who knows? Attraction and jealousy - they are so complicated."
Me: "Yep! Attraction is complicated..."
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