frasernz on Nostr: This. All the paid relays I checked have the same terms, part of which is the ...

This.

All the paid relays I checked have the same terms, part of which is the following.

By connecting to this relay, you agree:
- To have your IP address and/or public key collected for the purpose of detecting abuse, spam or misuse
- To have your IP address and/or public key in full, truncated, or as a hash digest shared with interested clients and other accepting relays for the sole purpose of reporting abuse, spam or misuse

That is better than the free relays which have no terms that I am aware of, but plenty of room for improvement.