Gar bear on Nostr: i'm not even looking, but it is funny to have the change of perception from "i can ...

i'm not even looking, but it is funny to have the change of perception from "i can never afford kids, to I might just be able to afford kids before i'm 40."

if I were looking, i would prob log into facebook for the first time in a long time to look up some old college friends to see if they're single.

like sending a note
"hey friend, how's your life been? still married to so-and-so"?

i did not see this possibility on the horizon