Courtney Heard 🇨🇦 on Nostr: I have never understood big, flashy weddings as anything other than a debt trap that ...

I have never understood big, flashy weddings as anything other than a debt trap that dooms the marriage from the start. You are essentially using your love for each other to grease the cogs of consumerism, trading it in for the stress of immense debt before your commitment to each other ever has a chance to succeed. Love that lasts can be celebrated in Chucks and jeans, and the party will be every bit as meaningful while you stash your cash for investment in your future. Resist consumer excess.