Diyana on Nostr: A good read by my friend Max Marner. Enjoyed reading while listening to beautiful ...
A good read by my friend Max Marner. Enjoyed reading while listening to beautiful track in devotion to Shiva. #sacredunion #sacredmarriage #polarity #hierosgmos #masculinefeminine #warriorking #lover #eros
*Erotic Worship, Ravishment and Where Have All the Good Men Gone?”
Friend: “There are men that just penetrate and fuck you. Then there are men that delicately enshroud you with attention to every part of you, inside-out to worship you.
I’ve been worshipped to great satisfaction, so why would I ever settle to just being fucked?
Shout out to the worshipping men 😏”
My reply:
Yes, shout out to the men who do more than just “penetrate and fuck you”.
Although I would be careful with the “worshipping men” for more than a few rendezvous of lovership.
The real shout out is to the men who embody the true multidimensional art of lovemaking.
As a woman, the thing to be careful of with the frequency of worship is that he doesnt enter the frequency of subservience and servitude.
That may be nice for a time or two but then you’ll likely lose respect for him quite quickly.
And when you lose respect for him there goes a significant portion of the Eros.
I’ve seen dynamic happen with many men who “worship” their women.
In fact, I had an old friend who got so into this frequency of worship that he thought it was the answer that was going to save his marriage.
He started writing eloquently about Wife Worship and garnered a lot adulating attention on social media from men and women alike…so he started a program teaching this energetic of worship to other men, women and couples.
Not too much later, his Wife left him.
The egoic hit of worship wore off and she lost respect for him. His energy increasingly felt in the frequency and tone of weakness, groveling and begging.
It’s technically a dom-sub game where the woman is energetically on top.
It may be nice as a “scene” but it’s not sustainable.
And this inverted dynamic is usually sourced in woundedness in both of them that desires healing.
The men who agree to long term relationships where the woman has the more dominant masculine energy end up increasingly emasculated, bitter and angry inside, despite the good face they may try to show the world or even to themselves.
Ravishment is a superior word and frequency than Worship.
The key is that he both honors her while also enacting a frequency of some degree of hierarchy - which should be organic rather than contrived or forced.
The most organic and natural form of hierarchy is where she surrenders to his masculine leadership, in sex and in life, because she trusts and respects his Masculinity and who he is as a Man (ideally even more than her own inner masculine).
A previous instagrammable quote of mine that I first shared with a woman in a Feminine Eros’ All For Love for coaching call is:
“if you don’t trust his masculine more than your own then he’s not the right man for you.”
Even women who have a very strong inner masculine are generally the most happy, satisfied and fulfilled when in their partnerships they feel the freedom to assert their inner masculine on the world, but when it comes to the inner sanctum of their love, the bedroom, her heart and their home, she can organically surrender to his masculine which she trusts even more than her own.
The challenge for a woman with a highly developed masculine is that the more developed her inner masculine is, by definition, the fewer men out there that have a more developed masculine than her.
This there are very few men who truly deserve her trust and devotional love.
Many women with developed inner masculine’s often have been disappointed by men so many times, usually starting with her father, that they harden to the possibility that it’s even possible for her to trust a man’s inner masculine more than her own.
After so many disappointments of getting her hopes up for apparently strong, masculine men who break under pressure, she may no longer believe it’s even possible to find a man like this.
The catch 22 is this lack of trust in the masculine literally starves her feminine every day she walks around with this lack of trust, belief and faith in the masculine and the goodness of men.
This then makes her less attractive to this rare set of highly developed Masculine Men, and more attractive to more feminized men who want to outsource their own inner masculine to her power, strength and conviction.
So it’s a self perpetuating, bias confirming path, where the more she hardens the more good and great Masculine Men keep their romantic distance and the more she attracts feminine men who want to outsource the power to her, the more she believes there are no great masculine men out there, the more she settles for the inverted polarity of a man in her heart of hearts she feels to be “beneath her” but at least he “serves” her in the bedroom and “holds her” to the best he can in life.
The problem with inverted polarity is that it does not lead to long lasting love and fulfillment because it is not fundamentally aligned with the biology of man and woman.
Cocks will get soft. Pussies will get dry. Hearts will close. Anger and resentment will build and the system will eventually blow up.
If I extrapolate this inverted polarity pattern all the way out from a lovership to a long term consecrated marriage, it’s only a matter of time till she realizes she just doesn’t respect her Husband anymore or he realizes he just can’t live like her Errand Boy Bitch anymore.
I’ve seen it time and time again.
Player’s Choice.
And yet it’s very hard to find Trustworthy Masculine Men who are also Great Lovers.
Why is this such a rare specimen of Man?
If we look at the set of the Masculine Archetypes of Warrior, King, Magician and Lover, The Masculine energy primarily resides in a man developing the Archetypes of Warrior and King.
However, these Warrior-King Men are often not great Lovers. Because the archetype of Lover requires significant development of his Inner Feminine. And most men learned to be Warrior-Kings by sublimating and suppressing their Inner Feminine.
As a result their Inner Feminine is often a minefield of suppressed wounds, traumas and shadows they fear to open and touch.
This is especially true when they lack knowledge and cultivated skill to meet these parts of themselves. Further, Masculine Men often don’t see the payoff in traversing this painful unfamiliar inner landscape and fear it will damage the strength and composure of their Leadership and derail the further Masculine assertion of their Purpose and Will onto the world.
The payoff for Masculine Men is found in understanding how the healing and cultivation of his inner feminine is necessary for the activation of his Lover Archetype - and the Multidimensional Benefits of doing so.
The Lover Archetype requires cultivating great attunement to subtle physical and emotional energy in both his own body and hers.
Rare is the man who has completed the Initiations necessary to have cultivated both a strong Inner Masculine to radiate as Warrior and King and a deep inner Feminine to shine as Lover.
So women often have great Loverships with more Feminine Men and then ultimately choose to Marry more Masculine Men sacrificing some erotic fulfillment in exchange for the heart opening fulfillment of the stable frame and leadership of a very good Masculine Man relatively undeveloped in his feminine.
Due to a variety of cultural, psychological and biological factors there is a Supply and Demand imbalance between Women ready for this level of Great Man and the actual numbers of Great Men like this.
It’s quite easy to anecdotally confirm that there are far more amazing women looking for “their man” than amazing men looking for their women.
So how does this Supply / Demand problem balance?
It’s far easier for a solid Masculine Man to learn to be great Lover than a feminine Loverboy to become a Warrior-King.
Especially because amazing, powerful, potent, sexy women deep in their feminine essence inspire men to want be Great in all areas of the life.
The Men who have cultivated their Inner Warrior and King just need to be willing to swallow a little humble pie and admit to themselves that while they are good or great in their Masculine they are not yet great in their Feminine and that committing to the development of their Inner Feminine holds the key to them unlocking the full expression of their Lover.
And when they unlock their full expression as Lover they will be able to ravish and multidimensionally penetrate their woman like they’ve never been able to before…
And this will fundamentally change their sense of self as a Man.
When a man can as Lover open the full erotic flowering of her sex and devotional heart and this energy is circulated back to him in an elixir of love, he will be forever changed.
This is something all men at their core long for but go about trying to access in so many misguided ways.
When he can receive this frequency of erotic, devotional love from the Feminine he finds himself connect to the Divine Frequencies of Life and Creation like never before as the duality of Man and Woman merge into the Oneness they always Were but had been lost and forgotten in the Illusion of the Maya.
This will unlock its own self generating, self propagating circuit, completely upgrading his sense of self as a Man and the world will respond to him and Masculine Leadership with a completely new tone of his Respect, Reverence and Honor.
This higher timeline of long term self perpetuating, devotional, sexy love is available to all willing to do the work to heal the wounds of their inner feminine and inner masculine and open their bodies, hearts, minds and spirits to true ElectroMagnetic Love.
https://youtu.be/YVzyzX87aFY?
*Erotic Worship, Ravishment and Where Have All the Good Men Gone?”
Friend: “There are men that just penetrate and fuck you. Then there are men that delicately enshroud you with attention to every part of you, inside-out to worship you.
I’ve been worshipped to great satisfaction, so why would I ever settle to just being fucked?
Shout out to the worshipping men 😏”
My reply:
Yes, shout out to the men who do more than just “penetrate and fuck you”.
Although I would be careful with the “worshipping men” for more than a few rendezvous of lovership.
The real shout out is to the men who embody the true multidimensional art of lovemaking.
As a woman, the thing to be careful of with the frequency of worship is that he doesnt enter the frequency of subservience and servitude.
That may be nice for a time or two but then you’ll likely lose respect for him quite quickly.
And when you lose respect for him there goes a significant portion of the Eros.
I’ve seen dynamic happen with many men who “worship” their women.
In fact, I had an old friend who got so into this frequency of worship that he thought it was the answer that was going to save his marriage.
He started writing eloquently about Wife Worship and garnered a lot adulating attention on social media from men and women alike…so he started a program teaching this energetic of worship to other men, women and couples.
Not too much later, his Wife left him.
The egoic hit of worship wore off and she lost respect for him. His energy increasingly felt in the frequency and tone of weakness, groveling and begging.
It’s technically a dom-sub game where the woman is energetically on top.
It may be nice as a “scene” but it’s not sustainable.
And this inverted dynamic is usually sourced in woundedness in both of them that desires healing.
The men who agree to long term relationships where the woman has the more dominant masculine energy end up increasingly emasculated, bitter and angry inside, despite the good face they may try to show the world or even to themselves.
Ravishment is a superior word and frequency than Worship.
The key is that he both honors her while also enacting a frequency of some degree of hierarchy - which should be organic rather than contrived or forced.
The most organic and natural form of hierarchy is where she surrenders to his masculine leadership, in sex and in life, because she trusts and respects his Masculinity and who he is as a Man (ideally even more than her own inner masculine).
A previous instagrammable quote of mine that I first shared with a woman in a Feminine Eros’ All For Love for coaching call is:
“if you don’t trust his masculine more than your own then he’s not the right man for you.”
Even women who have a very strong inner masculine are generally the most happy, satisfied and fulfilled when in their partnerships they feel the freedom to assert their inner masculine on the world, but when it comes to the inner sanctum of their love, the bedroom, her heart and their home, she can organically surrender to his masculine which she trusts even more than her own.
The challenge for a woman with a highly developed masculine is that the more developed her inner masculine is, by definition, the fewer men out there that have a more developed masculine than her.
This there are very few men who truly deserve her trust and devotional love.
Many women with developed inner masculine’s often have been disappointed by men so many times, usually starting with her father, that they harden to the possibility that it’s even possible for her to trust a man’s inner masculine more than her own.
After so many disappointments of getting her hopes up for apparently strong, masculine men who break under pressure, she may no longer believe it’s even possible to find a man like this.
The catch 22 is this lack of trust in the masculine literally starves her feminine every day she walks around with this lack of trust, belief and faith in the masculine and the goodness of men.
This then makes her less attractive to this rare set of highly developed Masculine Men, and more attractive to more feminized men who want to outsource their own inner masculine to her power, strength and conviction.
So it’s a self perpetuating, bias confirming path, where the more she hardens the more good and great Masculine Men keep their romantic distance and the more she attracts feminine men who want to outsource the power to her, the more she believes there are no great masculine men out there, the more she settles for the inverted polarity of a man in her heart of hearts she feels to be “beneath her” but at least he “serves” her in the bedroom and “holds her” to the best he can in life.
The problem with inverted polarity is that it does not lead to long lasting love and fulfillment because it is not fundamentally aligned with the biology of man and woman.
Cocks will get soft. Pussies will get dry. Hearts will close. Anger and resentment will build and the system will eventually blow up.
If I extrapolate this inverted polarity pattern all the way out from a lovership to a long term consecrated marriage, it’s only a matter of time till she realizes she just doesn’t respect her Husband anymore or he realizes he just can’t live like her Errand Boy Bitch anymore.
I’ve seen it time and time again.
Player’s Choice.
And yet it’s very hard to find Trustworthy Masculine Men who are also Great Lovers.
Why is this such a rare specimen of Man?
If we look at the set of the Masculine Archetypes of Warrior, King, Magician and Lover, The Masculine energy primarily resides in a man developing the Archetypes of Warrior and King.
However, these Warrior-King Men are often not great Lovers. Because the archetype of Lover requires significant development of his Inner Feminine. And most men learned to be Warrior-Kings by sublimating and suppressing their Inner Feminine.
As a result their Inner Feminine is often a minefield of suppressed wounds, traumas and shadows they fear to open and touch.
This is especially true when they lack knowledge and cultivated skill to meet these parts of themselves. Further, Masculine Men often don’t see the payoff in traversing this painful unfamiliar inner landscape and fear it will damage the strength and composure of their Leadership and derail the further Masculine assertion of their Purpose and Will onto the world.
The payoff for Masculine Men is found in understanding how the healing and cultivation of his inner feminine is necessary for the activation of his Lover Archetype - and the Multidimensional Benefits of doing so.
The Lover Archetype requires cultivating great attunement to subtle physical and emotional energy in both his own body and hers.
Rare is the man who has completed the Initiations necessary to have cultivated both a strong Inner Masculine to radiate as Warrior and King and a deep inner Feminine to shine as Lover.
So women often have great Loverships with more Feminine Men and then ultimately choose to Marry more Masculine Men sacrificing some erotic fulfillment in exchange for the heart opening fulfillment of the stable frame and leadership of a very good Masculine Man relatively undeveloped in his feminine.
Due to a variety of cultural, psychological and biological factors there is a Supply and Demand imbalance between Women ready for this level of Great Man and the actual numbers of Great Men like this.
It’s quite easy to anecdotally confirm that there are far more amazing women looking for “their man” than amazing men looking for their women.
So how does this Supply / Demand problem balance?
It’s far easier for a solid Masculine Man to learn to be great Lover than a feminine Loverboy to become a Warrior-King.
Especially because amazing, powerful, potent, sexy women deep in their feminine essence inspire men to want be Great in all areas of the life.
The Men who have cultivated their Inner Warrior and King just need to be willing to swallow a little humble pie and admit to themselves that while they are good or great in their Masculine they are not yet great in their Feminine and that committing to the development of their Inner Feminine holds the key to them unlocking the full expression of their Lover.
And when they unlock their full expression as Lover they will be able to ravish and multidimensionally penetrate their woman like they’ve never been able to before…
And this will fundamentally change their sense of self as a Man.
When a man can as Lover open the full erotic flowering of her sex and devotional heart and this energy is circulated back to him in an elixir of love, he will be forever changed.
This is something all men at their core long for but go about trying to access in so many misguided ways.
When he can receive this frequency of erotic, devotional love from the Feminine he finds himself connect to the Divine Frequencies of Life and Creation like never before as the duality of Man and Woman merge into the Oneness they always Were but had been lost and forgotten in the Illusion of the Maya.
This will unlock its own self generating, self propagating circuit, completely upgrading his sense of self as a Man and the world will respond to him and Masculine Leadership with a completely new tone of his Respect, Reverence and Honor.
This higher timeline of long term self perpetuating, devotional, sexy love is available to all willing to do the work to heal the wounds of their inner feminine and inner masculine and open their bodies, hearts, minds and spirits to true ElectroMagnetic Love.
https://youtu.be/YVzyzX87aFY?