Jameson Lopp on Nostr: How π₯ to π notice a Good Man π§ With π Good Man, Iβm π not referring ...
How π₯ to π notice a Good Man π§ With π Good Man, Iβm π not referring to a βNice Guyβ (see previous post for definition). Iβm talking about a π₯ man who is and wants good, but who also π₯ knows and loves boundaries. A Good Man π― is π₯ confident, and kind. He knows how to say No. He treats you with respect, and π€ expects you to treat π him with respect, and if you donβt, heβll simply move on, unlike the Nice π Guy who sticks around because he needs validation from you. A Good Man wants to get married, and doesnβt play games. He wants to be the man of one π€ woman, a good woman, whom he can raise π good kids with. Even if π€ he doesnβt want kids, if they happen to come along, heβll take on the job as π a dad with joy. A Good π― Man π knows how π to lead, π― and how to encourage others π to lead. π He gives space for others π€ to try new π things, and encourages them even if π€ they π fail. A Good Man can spot the difference between someone who π needs a second chance to succeed, and one who has decided to π fail no matter π how π many chances they get. A Good Man is authentic and π speaks the truth even when it's uncomfortable.
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