FoolishOwl on Nostr: npub1sre0w…amny9 npub18ljjw…480hq Gender's obviously a big part of this, but I ...
npub1sre0wuqsrck68ycschkt47u55wg9rht0akadhtavjp3kjpkuysdsgamny9 (npub1sre…mny9) npub18ljjwuh8vt0lrh3fe3vsefddt40u297gtsk3d4v4ywhjnvms9zfqy480hq (npub18lj…80hq) Gender's obviously a big part of this, but I think class and imperial culture comes into it.
Like, if you're not allowed to ask for things, then you try, passive aggressively, to create situations in which other people feel morally obligated to anticipate your desires. That obviously doesn't work if your social status is low. On the other hand if your status is high enough, your personal desires can blend into hegemonic norms.
Like, if you're not allowed to ask for things, then you try, passive aggressively, to create situations in which other people feel morally obligated to anticipate your desires. That obviously doesn't work if your social status is low. On the other hand if your status is high enough, your personal desires can blend into hegemonic norms.