Adam Dalliance on Nostr: I rank the social networks like this, in order of being the actual owner of the ...

I rank the social networks like this, in order of being the actual owner of the things you are publishing:
1) Fedi
2) Nosr
3) Bluesky
4) Telegram
5) Horrible-corproate-fuckbollocks

I rank the private message apps like this, in order of how actually private they are:
1) Matrix
2) Signal
3) Whatsapp (though, yes, the content of the messages you send with your surveillance app are encrypted, but it is still a surveillance app, FFS)
4) Telegram - This is not even a private message app FFS, this is a public not-encrypted message app. Why is it even on this list?

Which ones do you think my actual friends prefer?